It's only a logical fallacy if you stretch it too far. The original statement was that "it's hard to know what something's like if you haven't experienced it" w

It's only a logical fallacy if you stretch it too far. The original statement was that "it's hard to know what something's like if you haven't experienced it" which is a perfectly reasonable thing to say, along the lines of "you haven't had salted caramel ice cream? You don't know what you're missing!" You distorted that into "unless you are a member of the group, it's impossible for you to understand" which I guess would be a logical fallacy, but that's a different message altogether.