I wonder if identities is why some people feel insulted over mere remarks? If your identity includes "I am competent, I don't make mistakes unlike those other g

I wonder if identities is why some people feel insulted over mere remarks? If your identity includes "I am competent, I don't make mistakes unlike those other guys..." then code reviews really hurts. But if you don't have that as an identity you will do just fine. Feels like we spent a lot more time breaking down such delusional identities in the past, but today we spend so much effort trying to keep them alive.