I met someone and stuck with them. It was a long time ago...before online dating so make of it what you will. But it never was an optimization problem. With

I met someone and stuck with them. It was a long time ago...before online dating so make of it what you will. But it never was an optimization problem. With relationships, all the work is ahead or it's not a relationship. The selection process feels like work, but it isn't because it is easier than the work of a relationship. Easier than the work of making a relationship work. Good luck.