All I'm saying is that you are not alone. Many of us have had the same doubts and found the experience to be (very) positive. You won't find answers to this by

All I'm saying is that you are not alone. Many of us have had the same doubts and found the experience to be (very) positive. You won't find answers to this by trying to rationalize it, because you can't know what it's like until you experience it, if you ever do. You do you, my friend. I could no possibly have less at stake here, one way or another. Have a nice day.