I think in general we should try to re-assess decision taken early in life. Some of them work some not. I say this from a personal perspective where it took me

I think in general we should try to re-assess decision taken early in life. Some of them work some not. I say this from a personal perspective where it took me years to undo some decisions I took early and they were so hard established that it was a long process to unlearn/undo them. I quite like the idea that when it is about vision or meaning of life we should carefully make the learning or setting in stone kind of process harder. I think when young we are very biased to see the world in some way as we are biased to see it in some other way at 50. Not trying to convince you to revisit specifically the decision about children. Just sharing my own learning