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.....and there are plenty of stories of people who got married way too early before they learned who they are and were miserable and got divorced. There are ple

.....and there are plenty of stories of people who got married way too early before they learned who they are and were miserable and got divorced. There are plenty of kids with horror stories of growing up in those loveless households.

bequanna 3y ago
Right. But if you’re mature enough to debate the pros and cons of having children, you hopefully won’t be a bad parent if you do choose have kids.
- cryptonector 3y ago
  When a couple of 20 year olds decides to have children, they're almost certainly not mature enough, but it can and should work out.
  - bart_spoon 3y ago
    Why are they most certainly not mature enough. Having children in the 20s or has been the standard for essentially all of human history until the last 30 years, give or take. What is it about modern society that makes human beings less fit for parenthood than every previous generation?
cryptonector 3y ago
Yes, I'm aware. It's taking a chance. Now if the two kids (for, if they are 19, 20, 21, 22, ... they are kids) have had a good education from their parents and relatives and friends, and hopefully also if those people are around and willing to help them, then they should be able to work through difficulties.