> or a linux user group. or D&D/tabletop group [...] or nerd event at the bar All of which will be like 98% men. > if you're only willing to do low effort i

> or a linux user group. or D&D/tabletop group [...] or nerd event at the bar All of which will be like 98% men. > if you're only willing to do low effort interactions through an app then you're only going to get low effort partners, who will dismiss you based on one bad photo. I found my wife on OKCupid back in 2010, before online dating became an utter cesspool of dick pics and matches based purely on attractiveness with no consideration for actual matching by personality. Really, if I were to ever be back in the dating pool, Tinder in general would be my last choice.