Yeah in your case might make more sense to try and convert your local friendships into close ones… not always easy for busy adults, though. All my close friends

Yeah in your case might make more sense to try and convert your local friendships into close ones… not always easy for busy adults, though. All my close friendships from the last few years were cemented by doing trips together, even just short getaways like a weekend ski trip. Sorry for my earlier comment suggesting you had no life, reads more aggressive than I intended :)