> better off finding a job and just having me give her the $300,000 this is "all or nothing" thinking.. other posts show that other school systems have differe

> better off finding a job and just having me give her the $300,000 this is "all or nothing" thinking.. other posts show that other school systems have different cost structures. If she has the character and health for it, you could send her to an overseas school also.. think out of the box!