I like how not one of your considerations is family and familial support. I can’t move because I can’t abandon my child, and if I could somehow take my kid with

I like how not one of your considerations is family and familial support. I can’t move because I can’t abandon my child, and if I could somehow take my kid with me (legally, but that’s not happening since other parent would never give up her rights), I would arrive with no community or family to support me, emotionally, as a parent.