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"Why do you always have to tinker!?!" I'm sure you got an asswhooping. haha

• deanCommie 3y ago
  As he should've. Phones are individual/personal. Even if the iCloud account is on a shared plan, and one member of the family is responsible for managing it, they should not be making changes to any INDIVIDUAL device settings without checking with that device owner. I would be livid if my partner had done that for me because they "thought 'we' probably didn't need it, so I turned it off for 'your' iPhone"
  • sshine 3y ago
    I accidentally closed my wife’s tabs once. She didn’t say anything. But I’m not doing that again.
    • deanCommie 3y ago
      Well, if it was an accident, you might do it again. Accidents happen, and there's no point getting mad at a partner for being careless, unless they consistently demonstrate a lack of conscious awareness your interests/needs. But OP's sounded like an optimization decision and would require some process retrospective.
      • sshine 3y ago
        >> She didn’t say anything. > there's no point getting mad >> But I’m not doing that again > consistently demonstrate So, for example, by not saying anything instead of getting mad. And by leaving the other person’s devices to their own management.