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> they care far more about what you could provide than how you feel. This is real, it does happen. But for the sake of anyone reading this, please be aware.
by rootusrootus 3y ago
> they care far more about what you could provide than how you feel.
This is real, it does happen. But for the sake of anyone reading this, please be aware. There are plenty of women who are not like this. Finding them can feel overwhelming, but when you land the right one, it makes life so much better.
I'm kidding, but only slightly, when I say this: I think the best advice for young men is to skip the dating scene altogether until you're about 30. Things settle down, everyone more mature and less mercenary, and women will look at you more for your good manly qualities rather than the shallow ones.
- dennis_jeeves2 3y ago[flagged]
- norwalkbear 3y agoTerrible advice, that's gets men fleeced and suicidal
- em-bee 3y agoi am always advocating for getting married early, before we are settled into our habits and expectations. however that is dependent on a supportive society, one that teaches young people what qualities they should look for in a partner, and one that that nurtures these good qualities from childhood. until then, i would very much agree with you.