It's fascinating that your response plays right into what I was saying. You say I'm 'whining'. Imagine saying this to a woman who is complaining about womens'

It's fascinating that your response plays right into what I was saying. You say I'm 'whining'. Imagine saying this to a woman who is complaining about womens' issues. It's never done. To say someone is 'whining' is to say he is inappropriately weak. It's a notion that is targeted only towards men to force us into our social role where we can he useful to others. He needs to toughen up, act like a man, play his role. Stop whining! Your problems are your responsibility! Nobody else wants to hear it! It's exactly what we're used to hearing over and over.