People use masculinity and femininity as excuses to be toxic. Neither masculinity nor femininity is toxic; the adjective serves a purpose. "Don't do ____, it

People use masculinity and femininity as excuses to be toxic. Neither masculinity nor femininity is toxic; the adjective serves a purpose. "Don't do ____, it makes you less of a [gender]" is toxic. "It's okay that you hurt somebody by ____, it's in your nature as a [gender]" is toxic.