Anyone who isn't a religious fundamentalist needs to find a non-combative way to talk about it that doesn't make it into a zero-sum game between boys and girls

Anyone who isn't a religious fundamentalist needs to find a non-combative way to talk about it that doesn't make it into a zero-sum game between boys and girls because the far-right evangelicals approach this as a means to an end: "here's this thing that will be easy to point at as a justification for the reversion to traditional gender roles that we already wanted." So anyone who wants to advance the experience of people regardless of gender has got to fight that framing as well as advance possible solutions.