I was surprised at how many people who commented on the first post basically told her to "lighten up". The other kind of response I was disheartened to see ran

I was surprised at how many people who commented on the first post basically told her to "lighten up". The other kind of response I was disheartened to see ran along the lines of "just give them some of what they're giving you", which really boils down to "just stoop to their level". I think I assume these issues are fairly visible, and that people who don't see them on their own will recognize the problem as soon as it is pointed out to them. I guess not.