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Shame could be the active ingredient in poorer outcomes of children of divorce, I'm not sure casting it more broadly will help the general picture.
by peteradio 3y ago
Shame could be the active ingredient in poorer outcomes of children of divorce, I'm not sure casting it more broadly will help the general picture.
- fasthands9 3y agoI agree shame does not help once you are divorce, but there is some envelope math which seems fair. If divorce makes outcomes 10% worse but makes divorce with children 20% less likely, maybe it's a wash? At the very least, it seems incorrect to insist to me the downsides of shame always outweighs the benefits from it. Even if putting numbers on it is kinda farcical, but I think the point still stands.