Yeah we're talking here about "ask" as a noun, as in "what's the ask?" > I find that limiting the number of things that drive you up a wall is good. Me too, b

Yeah we're talking here about "ask" as a noun, as in "what's the ask?" > I find that limiting the number of things that drive you up a wall is good. Me too, but if this is really just a way of saying "this shouldn't upset you", you should just say that. As stated, it comes across as condescending.