A+. Kids come out with their own personalities which will grow and change in response to events. You can provide some of the events but not all. You can't reall

A+. Kids come out with their own personalities which will grow and change in response to events. You can provide some of the events but not all. You can't really control how they change in response to those events. The idea that a child is a tabula rasa, fully shaped by the parent, is harmful to parents and children.