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That bothers me a bunch but not less than using "ask" as a replacement for "request" and "learning" for "lesson".
by oblio 3y ago
That bothers me a bunch but not less than using "ask" as a replacement for "request" and "learning" for "lesson".
- xwowsersx 3y agoI am so with you. "Ask" drives me up a wall!
- xyzelement 3y agoI find that limiting the number of things that drive you up a wall is good. "I have something to ask of you" is not a novel term for request. And ask is softer than request, giving the other party more opening to decline. I don't hate it.
- gldnspud 3y agoI think the annoyance is in the use of the word “ask” as a noun. Example: “I have an ask for you” being used instead of “I have a request for you”.
- xwowsersx 3y agoYeah we're talking here about "ask" as a noun, as in "what's the ask?" > I find that limiting the number of things that drive you up a wall is good. Me too, but if this is really just a way of saying "this shouldn't upset you", you should just say that. As stated, it comes across as condescending.
- oblio 3y ago"Ask" the pseudo-noun.
- relesson 3y agoI think the case re: lesson / learning is less clear, because in a “learning” there’s no teacher, you’ve all learned something, whereas lesson implies teacher and taught. I still hate “learning” as a noun though.
- pclmulqdq 3y agoA lot of the time, a metaphorical lesson has no teacher, too. "Learning" is imported to the tech scene from India, where "a verb-ing" seems to be able to be the noun form of one instance of the verb (in certain contexts).
- oblio 3y agoIt I fall on my butt due to running on ice, nobody really taught me, yet I still learned a lesson :-)