I like this phasing "occupying the right amount of space", it's an easy way for me to remember if I'm 'doing it right' or 'holding it wrong'. > This is not to

I like this phasing "occupying the right amount of space", it's an easy way for me to remember if I'm 'doing it right' or 'holding it wrong'. > This is not to say that humility is all about focusing on others and not yourself. It is also not about stepping back from your values, beliefs or needs when it is appropriate for you to assert them. As the Mussar Jewish ethical movement teaches, humility is about occupying the right amount of space, the space necessary for the situation – not less, not more.