not just regularity of going there yourself, but you also need to pick places or activities where most of the participants are regulars too. and that is more l

not just regularity of going there yourself, but you also need to pick places or activities where most of the participants are regulars too. and that is more likely the case for small active groups or clubs, not bars or museums. but it could be boardgame nights at a bar, anything that draws only a small group. on events that draw a larger crowd, you have to pay attention to who the regulars are and focus on associating with those if you want to develop any kind of friendship.