but I’ve slowly come around to thinking that only those who substantially share a moral framework with me deserve to be treated in that framework, and those who

but I’ve slowly come around to thinking that only those who substantially share a moral framework with me deserve to be treated in that framework, and those who choose to act in a radically different moral framework probably deserve to be treated under that framework. In other words, I refuse to let my moral framework be used as a tool to harm me. It's incoherent to exclude this from your own moral framework.