Wow, that's terrible. This reminds me of a friend who has a narcissistic spouse. The spouse's criticism, gaslighting, and projection has ruined his self-esteem

Wow, that's terrible. This reminds me of a friend who has a narcissistic spouse. The spouse's criticism, gaslighting, and projection has ruined his self-esteem. It took years and the help of therapists for him to see that he isn't the problem.