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You are missing the point, the "Asker" can be a demanding idiot, but if you frame as "just asking" it tries to absorb any blame as it puts the burden of figurin
by a1o 3y ago
You are missing the point, the "Asker" can be a demanding idiot, but if you frame as "just asking" it tries to absorb any blame as it puts the burden of figuring out things at whoever has to answer. I think this dynamic analysis is written from an "Asker" perspective and this reflects in the choice of words.
- crazygringo 3y agoNo I'm sorry but you are continuing to miss the point. Sure, the asker can be a "demanding idiot". But a guesser can also expect everyone to be able to read their mind -- which is being just as much of a "demanding idiot". You seem to actually be insisting that one cultural pattern is better than the other, when there's simply no objective basis for that assertion whatsoever. You're concluding that the article/analysis is written from one bias, but I think it's actually revealing your own personal bias here. The article seems entirely objective and neutral to both viewpoints, whereas your reactions are clearly not.