> I care about them and want to them to get better. Those are the same words but pointing to a radically different reality. I care about my coworkers being he

> I care about them and want to them to get better. Those are the same words but pointing to a radically different reality. I care about my coworkers being healthy, but there are clear boundaries that I won't pass over. If they drink all nights all week stay alive during the day through piles of enerfy drinks, I won't have much to say if it doesn't affect their work. Same way I can go any length to help my kid succeed at school, including changing school, paying for tuitions, changing their diet and whole life rythm to improve their focus etc. Helping my colleagues succeed goes as much as talking to them and changing their tasks/career path.