The bit that I'm reflecting on is if you are used to it then you know you have an out - just offer/decline a few more times. As opposed to I guess an ask cultur

The bit that I'm reflecting on is if you are used to it then you know you have an out - just offer/decline a few more times. As opposed to I guess an ask culture perspective where the presumed reason for the repeat asks is that they are trying to wear you down and your outs are basically capitulation or escalation. I'm also reflecting on the times where I've changed my mind during repeat offers, basically because it gave me enough time to think. No conclusions on your question, just ruminations from some one who wonders the same.