So hey HN, if we really are gonna go on a crusade against objectification and gender roles, why does it almost always have to be about women playing victim? An

So hey HN, if we really are gonna go on a crusade against objectification and gender roles, why does it almost always have to be about women playing victim? Any guy could whip up blog posts about daily situations where specific (not necessarily superior) roles are imposed upon them by society simply because they are men. I get told all the time by the ladies (even if jokingly) that I should put on some weight so I am more of a man. I get asked all the time and it is assumed of me even more times to carry the bags because I am the man in the situation. Aren't there centuries old idea about being a "gentleman"? Where you are expected to hold the door for the woman, buy her stuff etc. Aren't there studies that men are much less likely to report rape than women? Shouldn't that be much more appalling to all than some of the pettier examples posted on HN recently?