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As the title says, it's not about not wanting kids, it's about thinking it will happen automatically. Some guys think that relationships magically start in a r
by koonsolo 3y ago
As the title says, it's not about not wanting kids, it's about thinking it will happen automatically.
Some guys think that relationships magically start in a romantic setting, like shown in Hollywood movies. Reality is: if you want something, you should actively purchase it.
So if you don't want kids: fine, enjoy the freedoms it will offer.
If you want a relationship and/or family, don't sit on your ass until it will magically appear to you. Go get it!
- antisthenes 3y agoThe reality is that for an average guy, earning a stable long-term relationship in the Tinder era is an enormous amount of work, to the point that many find this challenge insurmountable (at least 5% more men, than women, as we can see from the article). There are many men that I know that simply are consumed by the necessity to make ends meet that they barely have any time to go out and meet new people (women specifically). Also, on top of that, women are far less approachable these days, which increases the effort even further.