So, what is the solution? Work uniforms for everyone? But more to the point, doesn't this suggest a desire on one hand to seem cute, feminine, and romanticall

So, what is the solution? Work uniforms for everyone? But more to the point, doesn't this suggest a desire on one hand to seem cute, feminine, and romantically attractive, but not to get too much attention? If this is the case, then are there bright lines at all in this area?