Eh, if you're at the point where you're doing stuff like "give me all records where a one-to-many has exactly two entries, and a different one to many has at le

Eh, if you're at the point where you're doing stuff like "give me all records where a one-to-many has exactly two entries, and a different one to many has at least one record with property x" it gets VERY hard to do the correct performant SQL. I don't think that sort of query is too bizzare.