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Sounds like another argument for more people to read "How to Win Friends and Influence People"[1]: For the people making sexist comments, there are lots of int
by dazbradbury 15y ago
Sounds like another argument for more people to read "How to Win Friends and Influence People"[1]:
For the people making sexist comments, there are lots of interesting stories and points in there. But obviously you can't force people to read the book, and expect any difference!
However, it is very applicable for the OP also. Take for example this overview of one chapter:
How to Change People Without Giving Offense or Arousing Resentment:
Begin with praise and honest appreciation.
Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly.
Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.
Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.
Let the other person save face.
Praise every improvement.
Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.
Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.
Make the other person happy about doing what you suggest.
[1] - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influence_People http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influenc...