> go back to the kitchen is on the same level as telling a guy he should stick to computers because he sure as hell sucks at talking to girls Why is "go back t

> go back to the kitchen is on the same level as telling a guy he should stick to computers because he sure as hell sucks at talking to girls Why is "go back to the kitchen" on the same level? My girlfriend can't cook and wants nothing to do with it, let alone the fact that the phrase has been a stereotype actively used to demean the gender for a very long time. Ribbing someone by telling them to stick with something they're actually active in and good at is really on the same level as a gender-wide stereotype?