Thanks, but if I didn't blunder here, I can assure you I have in many other places. I strive to be mindful. I try not to "blame" anyone for strong reactions. Bu

Thanks, but if I didn't blunder here, I can assure you I have in many other places. I strive to be mindful. I try not to "blame" anyone for strong reactions. But when we see certain unhelpful behaviors directed at other people, I try to identify/name it without making it worse. Awareness helps.