>..someone is talking to me.. I think the discrepancy here is just different definitions of the word 'identity'. If someone is talking 'to you' then you are id

>..someone is talking to me.. I think the discrepancy here is just different definitions of the word 'identity'. If someone is talking 'to you' then you are identified by that. It's not about your unique internal world, but about your uniqueness among humans (like a primary key identifies a database row).