Let's just say, how many kids (generally 1 or 2) and where they lived (not that pricy in the scheme of things), and the cost of their houses were discussed. Bu

Let's just say, how many kids (generally 1 or 2) and where they lived (not that pricy in the scheme of things), and the cost of their houses were discussed. But also - where they lived, even if their housing prices were high for the area (500k home for one, maybe 350k for the other), that's the choice they made. They didn't have to; they felt living that way was again a must-have for some reason. As you can see, when you start adding up the numbers, these are not SFO/NYC paupers.