and while outcomes are... great it's the effort that should be prioritized because we want that brought to all initiatives, not just the ones where you're going

and while outcomes are... great it's the effort that should be prioritized because we want that brought to all initiatives, not just the ones where you're going to be successful. Every parent should know this; give feedback like "You worked really hard on X" (effort) vs. "You're so smart!" (outcome)