Some of these games I'd like to play, but I've no desire to because of player toxicity. I am a newb, my mother is a target. I make a mistake, my sister gobbles

Some of these games I'd like to play, but I've no desire to because of player toxicity. I am a newb, my mother is a target. I make a mistake, my sister gobbles male chickens. I'm not in the right place, I'm suddenly a man who likes a man. I dont play much, but I'm in the most profitable demographic. Maybe the reaction shouldn't be "don't play the game if you expect to find a bunch of vile people there", and instead it should be a "public lobbies are moderated. Vile and septic community behaviour will result in bans. Private lobbies can be created, and in those cases voice chat will be unmoderated."