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May I ask why you didn’t want a second kid, and why you wanted your wife to go back to work before your child was kinder age (4/5)?
by angmarsbane 3y ago
May I ask why you didn’t want a second kid, and why you wanted your wife to go back to work before your child was kinder age (4/5)?
- orochimaaru 3y ago1. Gap between the two kids. We've generally observed that the best gap for siblings to bond is when they're within 4 yrs of each other. This isn't some great research but we just observed it in our friend circle. 2. We had excellent childcare close by, as in 5 minutes from home. I had flexible and remote work and would have been able to drop and pick my child up. I also had a provision where I could write the child care off my taxes. She finally went back to work when my little one was 8. She did go back when the little one was 3 but had to drop out again because of a health issue with the little one.