What I've learned about tech tribalism arguments is that for some reason some one else doing something first means you can't be mad about it when it happens aga

What I've learned about tech tribalism arguments is that for some reason some one else doing something first means you can't be mad about it when it happens again. Its like if you cheated on your wife and told her she can't get mad because your neighbor cheated on his wife first. Somehow that is a rebuttal even though she was never married to the neighbor and may have even started dating you in the first place because you didn't cheat.