Accusing on of the first pioneers of Open Source as being "exclusionary" has got to be a joke. In many ways, they were there first. I really don't understand

Accusing on of the first pioneers of Open Source as being "exclusionary" has got to be a joke. In many ways, they were there first. I really don't understand why there's such a tendency to demand "monolithic social networks" even in open source software development. Connecting to people is great when feelings are mutual, but we don't even have a right to be left alone without being accused of being anti-social?