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Would "we must force parents to keep their kids in situations where they (the parents) believe the children are being abused, to make sure the kids grow up toug
by whatshisface 3y ago
Would "we must force parents to keep their kids in situations where they (the parents) believe the children are being abused, to make sure the kids grow up tougher than their parents desires would result in," be a solution anyone would actually want?
- ethbr1 3y agoI'd want that for my kids, because I think it'd be net-best for them. Clearly, I'm not talking about extreme abuse. But I am talking about more discomfort than I (as the parent) would want for the child in my ideal world. Parenting is always wanting your child to suffer as little as possible. But a little suffering is good in the long run for the child. Thus, the fundamental tension in letting parents be the ultimate arbiters of a child's experience.
- whatshisface 3y agoYou want your children to experience more abuse than you want them to experience?
- ethbr1 3y agoI think you're intentionally using term the abuse, in contrast to the words I used, to be inflammatory. But yes, I think it's healthy for my children to experience more suffering than I, ceteris paribus, would permit them to experience, if I were omnipotent.
- whatshisface 3y agoI'm using the word abuse because I am referring to abuse as distinct from the abstract kind of suffering that's impossible to have any opinions for or against because it might include hiking long-distance. ;)
- ethbr1 3y agoWhere does a kid walking up to your kid and saying "That shirt looks dumb on you" once a week fall?
- whatshisface 3y agoPretty far north of some of the things that happen in the rougher of our public schools.