The only two options are working for a Chinese company or getting married (other options are available but they are not within reach) I don't want to work for

The only two options are working for a Chinese company or getting married (other options are available but they are not within reach) I don't want to work for a Chinese company, but we will likely get married. As for the 4-5 years, I don't know, I have never made plans that far in my life, it's just a random number that would allow me to become fluent in the language and experience the country rather well. I think both of us wants to spend some time in Eastern Europe as well, we will see