I don’t know where you are, but this wasn’t true decades ago when I grew up, and doesn’t seem to be true at my kids school. For one thing, our school pretty ag

I don’t know where you are, but this wasn’t true decades ago when I grew up, and doesn’t seem to be true at my kids school. For one thing, our school pretty aggressively tries to find and obtain diagnosis for kids with learning/behavioral issues. I know “just move” isn’t really actionable advice, but if you have the means to home school, maybe you could?