This sentiment you describe is probably more indicative of the distinct groups of people you hang out with. No one I know would be more interested in benching o

This sentiment you describe is probably more indicative of the distinct groups of people you hang out with. No one I know would be more interested in benching over making something actually useful. Also going to the gym isn’t what I would call hard work but I used to dig fence post holes in 100+ degree heat for 12 hours a day as a teen and that’s what I would consider hard. You want to see a lot of people working hard head over to your local farm and begin to realize how 99% of people will never work as a hard as farmer. Your next task will be to realize that even with working far more than others as a farmer you can still live a terrible life.