Of course it can be, but then there should be ways (a "process", if you will) for them to reach you ("designed" to be responsive, so to speak). If you can't be

Of course it can be, but then there should be ways (a "process", if you will) for them to reach you ("designed" to be responsive, so to speak). If you can't be reached when you want to be reached, your process is poorly designed. At this point I can't feel otherwise but that you're putting words in my mouth to beat a straw man. I never advocated for anything even remotely related to a sentiment like "keep your phone off at all times and fuck everyone who asks for your help". If they're someone whom you would want to be available for, you should probably design a process that makes that possible. What I am saying is, unless you're licensed as rescue personnel or something similar, that call probably isn't as "urgent" as you seem to want it to be, regardless of the panic or anxiety which might exist.