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> Is this a better price than a licensed therapist? Yes Good luck finding a licensed therapist who has bookings or availability. In Seattle I have had almost 0

> Is this a better price than a licensed therapist? Yes Good luck finding a licensed therapist who has bookings or availability. In Seattle I have had almost 0 luck over multiple years, and I have talked to many other people who have had the exact same amount of luck. The very few therapists around here who do specialize in ADHD either specialize in children, or they are so booked up they don't even bother with a wait list. Mind you this is for cash payments, if you want insurance to cover care you are completely out of luck no matter how good your insurance is.

christalwang 3y ago
Thank you for this. Many of our members have the exact experience you're talking about here. Many therapists go as far as saying they specialize with ADHD when they in fact don't. For those who do specialize in ADHD, it's far and few between—with waitlists out the door. Additionally, therapy is addressing different but sometimes overlapping space we are—we are forward-looking, action-oriented coaching (e.g. reaching goals and how you set up your life for it) and we don't do therapy (more backwards looking, unpacking, talking, etc.)
xp84 3y ago
Yup, it's a clear giant flashing sign that the market is fully broken that we (with our employers) are all paying ~$25,000+ per adult for health insurance, and cannot find mental health providers who are interested in taking said insurance. • Big shortage of providers • Providers see taking insurance is like pulling teeth because they never want to pay and why should they because they can get a full appointment book from cash patients alone, due to the shortage. So things like therapy become completely out of reach unless you're very wealthy, or if you've gotten to the point that you are desperate to go into ruinous debt, trading one problem for another one.
- hirvi74 3y ago
  > it's a clear giant flashing sign that the market is fully broken If so many people need mental health treatment, then I think it's a more gigantic sign that our society is absolutely toxic and FUBAR.
joe_guy 3y ago
A therapist friend recommended I use https://psychologytoday.com/us/ https://psychologytoday.com/us/ to search. I had reasonable lucky but ymmv. Not affiliated/etc.
- jonnyreiss 3y ago
  I've had success with Psychology Today search in the Seattle area --- if a provider is full or has no openings, ask if they know anyone who is not. That has also helped me!
ModernMech 3y ago
Yup, all we hear about constantly from politicians is that there’s a mental health crisis. Every time there’s a mass shooting, they blame mental health. Okay, fine, we all agree this is a problem, so why can’t I find a therapist? Why can’t my bipolar 1 ex wife find a psychiatrist? She’s batshit manic right now telling the cops I’m breaking into her apartment stealing antique doll dresses for crying out loud. How does she get help? She has to go to the ER and get hospitalized if she wants any attention, but those stays cost $30,000 typically in my experience. She’s had several. Sorry about the rant… So yeah, there’s a fucking mental health crisis and no one seems to want to do anything about it.
- christalwang 3y ago
  I'm super sorry to hear about your ex wife. I have someone close to me in the same situation and we've also been battling it for our whole lives. No need to apologize for the rant, I'm also here being mad for you (for us)!!
  - ModernMech 3y ago
    Well you’re doing something at least. I’m trying to get my adhd diagnosed after my mom refused when I was a kid, and I’ve been self medicating my whole life with caffeine and weed, unaware I even could have this disorder. I thought it was just being a hyperactive kid — that wasn’t me. But then I learned about all the symptoms as an adult. Yup, I’ve got ‘em all, like friggen ash catchem. I feel like a lot of adults failed me here but I’m not blaming anyone, even my mom. She had the best intentions but didn’t trust the “medical industrial complex” as she called it. Somehow I’ve managed all this time by placing myself in environments where my executive function isn’t impaired (I dunno if that’s even the correct terminology), but now I’m in a job where I can barely function leading people to get upset with me, and I don’t know what to do. I’ve been trying to get a diagnosis for over a year, and fiiiiiinally I have something on the books for November. It’ll be over $1000 out of pocket and I have excellent insurance. Top notch. Anyway, this is just to say keep fighting the good fight. Don’t know if I’ll use your service but I’ll consider it after I get my diagnosis.
sanderjd 3y ago
Yep. I did find a therapist that I really like, but I had to give up on the idea of using insurance.
datavirtue 3y ago
Yeah, and if you do manage to jam your foot in the door at one of those places they just look at you sideways.

christalwang 3y ago

Thank you for this. Many of our members have the exact experience you're talking about here. Many therapists go as far as saying they specialize with ADHD when they in fact don't. For those who do specialize in ADHD, it's far and few between—with waitlists out the door. Additionally, therapy is addressing different but sometimes overlapping space we are—we are forward-looking, action-oriented coaching (e.g. reaching goals and how you set up your life for it) and we don't do therapy (more backwards looking, unpacking, talking, etc.)

xp84 3y ago

Yup, it's a clear giant flashing sign that the market is fully broken that we (with our employers) are all paying ~$25,000+ per adult for health insurance, and cannot find mental health providers who are interested in taking said insurance. • Big shortage of providers • Providers see taking insurance is like pulling teeth because they never want to pay and why should they because they can get a full appointment book from cash patients alone, due to the shortage. So things like therapy become completely out of reach unless you're very wealthy, or if you've gotten to the point that you are desperate to go into ruinous debt, trading one problem for another one.

hirvi74 3y ago
> it's a clear giant flashing sign that the market is fully broken If so many people need mental health treatment, then I think it's a more gigantic sign that our society is absolutely toxic and FUBAR.

joe_guy 3y ago

A therapist friend recommended I use https://psychologytoday.com/us/ https://psychologytoday.com/us/ to search. I had reasonable lucky but ymmv. Not affiliated/etc.

jonnyreiss 3y ago
I've had success with Psychology Today search in the Seattle area --- if a provider is full or has no openings, ask if they know anyone who is not. That has also helped me!

ModernMech 3y ago

Yup, all we hear about constantly from politicians is that there’s a mental health crisis. Every time there’s a mass shooting, they blame mental health. Okay, fine, we all agree this is a problem, so why can’t I find a therapist? Why can’t my bipolar 1 ex wife find a psychiatrist? She’s batshit manic right now telling the cops I’m breaking into her apartment stealing antique doll dresses for crying out loud. How does she get help? She has to go to the ER and get hospitalized if she wants any attention, but those stays cost $30,000 typically in my experience. She’s had several. Sorry about the rant… So yeah, there’s a fucking mental health crisis and no one seems to want to do anything about it.

christalwang 3y ago
I'm super sorry to hear about your ex wife. I have someone close to me in the same situation and we've also been battling it for our whole lives. No need to apologize for the rant, I'm also here being mad for you (for us)!!
- ModernMech 3y ago
  Well you’re doing something at least. I’m trying to get my adhd diagnosed after my mom refused when I was a kid, and I’ve been self medicating my whole life with caffeine and weed, unaware I even could have this disorder. I thought it was just being a hyperactive kid — that wasn’t me. But then I learned about all the symptoms as an adult. Yup, I’ve got ‘em all, like friggen ash catchem. I feel like a lot of adults failed me here but I’m not blaming anyone, even my mom. She had the best intentions but didn’t trust the “medical industrial complex” as she called it. Somehow I’ve managed all this time by placing myself in environments where my executive function isn’t impaired (I dunno if that’s even the correct terminology), but now I’m in a job where I can barely function leading people to get upset with me, and I don’t know what to do. I’ve been trying to get a diagnosis for over a year, and fiiiiiinally I have something on the books for November. It’ll be over $1000 out of pocket and I have excellent insurance. Top notch. Anyway, this is just to say keep fighting the good fight. Don’t know if I’ll use your service but I’ll consider it after I get my diagnosis.

sanderjd 3y ago

Yep. I did find a therapist that I really like, but I had to give up on the idea of using insurance.

datavirtue 3y ago

Yeah, and if you do manage to jam your foot in the door at one of those places they just look at you sideways.