My friend, I don't think it's the hair, it's likely your energy. This anecdote for example: > Very recently, I had a conversation with someone in my office, an

My friend, I don't think it's the hair, it's likely your energy. This anecdote for example: > Very recently, I had a conversation with someone in my office, and it went great. The next day, I asked them for a coffee, they came, with their bowl of fruits. We stood in the lobby facing each other, and behind me was the coffee machine. I tell her - “Give me one second, I will just get my coffee”, and I turn around to get my coffee. When I have my coffee and turn back around to see her, all of which took less than 1 minute, she is gone, disappeared, poof! It sounds like you're putting too much pressure on people. Would you have cared if it was a guy you were getting coffee with had to shoot off? I think you should talk to girls with no expectations, otherwise people get defensive