>making everyone walk on egg shells based on conjecture just makes things uncomfortable for everyone Yes, I agree completely, and the unhelpful comment left by

>making everyone walk on egg shells based on conjecture just makes things uncomfortable for everyone Yes, I agree completely, and the unhelpful comment left by 'Bill' on her page served to 'shut her up', rather I wish he would ask a question, seek for more details which could lead to a genuine understanding from all sides. It is encouraging to me that you understand the core issue here: not that there are problems but we don't know how to talk about them.