Got an offer where they refused to put job description, work hours, or the promised remote work in the contract. They own all IP I create outside work hours, u

Got an offer where they refused to put job description, work hours, or the promised remote work in the contract. They own all IP I create outside work hours, unrelated to the company. I need permission to work on my side business, which basically got me the job. That business has a community I've built over 5 years. HR called me early morning, and three times without warning during office hours of my current job. Their first offer was about the same as my public sector position, where the salary is public. I tried hard to resolve these problems with HR but most of the time I was just gaslit, as if the problems didn't exist. The hiring team and work seemed really great.